fat apple wrote:
Personally, because I made the choice to purposefully grow very fat, I am not bothered when "vanilla" people cast insults or are obviously repelled by my fatness in a non-verbal way. To me, if that sort of thing was troubling to me or had a negative impact on my self-image, I would just quit gaining. So it surprises me when gainers are upset when encountering the disapproval of obesity by the general public.
Personally, because I made the choice to purposefully grow very fat, I am not bothered when "vanilla" people cast insults or are obviously repelled by my fatness in a non-verbal way. To me, if that sort of thing was troubling to me or had a negative impact on my self-image, I would just quit gaining. So it surprises me when gainers are upset when encountering the disapproval of obesity by the general public.
I think you're right. If someone gets fat despite their wishes they often feel shame about it and can easily be hurt by other's remarks. This is less of a problem for those who have gotten fat on purpose. I mean, if you choose to be fat who cares if someone says you're fat? They're just confirming your success!
But you're lucky fat apple. You're really confident about your decision to gain. Those who are more conflicted about it (and yet have done it anyway) have a tougher time.
This is the main reason I created my site, to help people like that.
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